Parenting a tween is hard, but you don't have to do it alone.
Enrolment is open from 11 - 16 July 2024!
- back talking
- emotional outbursts
- bullies, cliques
- excessive gaming
- social media consumption
- "defiant" behaviours
- lack of motivation?
If you do, I feel you! It is exhausting to manage them all and you are definitely NOT ALONE!
I do too! And in this short video, I share what I am doing to keep my children safe.
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Build trust with your child
so your child will run to you instead of away from you when they are at their lowest
Be your child's emotion coach
and help them develop emotion regulation, problem solving, stress management and decision making skills, resilience and more!
feel less alone on this parenting journey
Tap on the collective wisdom from a community of supportive parents and experts who understand your struggles.
We will turn these parenting challenges into teachable moments AND raise children who are regulated, reflective, and resilient!
We will turn these parenting challenges into teachable moments AND raise children who are regulated, reflective, and resilient!
We can develop good internal moral compasses in our children so they can navigate peer pressure with confidence, develop good digital habits, manage school stress in healthy ways!
We will turn these parenting challenges into teachable moments AND build trusting relationships with our tweens!
You will learn your WHY, so you can understand your child and your inner child.
When you are equipped with knowledge about your child's development, you can navigate the tweenager years with empathy and confidence.
You will learn how to speak the tween language so you can be on the same team as your tween.
When you build a trusting relationship, your child will run to you instead of away from you when they make a grave mistake or feel defeated.
You will learn and apply actionable, research-backed strategies, facilitate conversations and be your child's emotion coach.
These strategies will help your tweens develop skills such as
- emotion regulation
- problem solving
- stress management
- decision making
so they can become resilient, responsible and reflective teens.
SGD84
($28/month)
- Signature audio course
- Audio class on private podcast
- Templates, scripts, summaries
- Q&A / Interview with experts
- Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
This plan will automatically renew every 3 months.
SGD150
($25/month)
- Signature audio course
- Audio class on private podcast
- Templates, scripts, summaries
- Q&A / Interview with experts
- Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
This plan will automatically renew every 6 months.
SGD264
($22/month)
- Signature audio course
- Audio class on private podcast
- Templates, scripts, summaries
- Q&A / Interview with experts
- Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
- Enjoy 20% off (per month) compared to the 3-month plan!
This plan will automatically renew every 12 months.
SGD90
($30/month)
- Signature audio course Tween Talk
- Audio class on private podcast
- Templates, scripts, summaries
- Q&A / Interview with experts
- Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
This plan will automatically renew every 3 months.
SGD168
($28/month)
- Signature audio course Tween Talk
- Audio class on private podcast
- Templates, scripts, summaries
- Q&A / Interview with experts
- Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
This plan will automatically renew every 6 months.
SGD276
($23/month)
- Signature audio course Tween Talk
- Audio class on private podcast
- Templates, scripts, summaries
- Q&A / Interview with experts
- Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
- Enjoy 20% off (per month) compared to the 3-month plan!
This plan will automatically renew every 12 months.
Laying a strong foundation during the tween years is crucial for building a long-lasting, trusting relationship.
Shape their beliefs, values and behaviours now before it becomes harder.
SGD90
($30/month)
- Signature audio course Tween Talk
- Audio class on private podcast
- Templates, scripts, summaries
- Q&A / Interview with experts
- Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
This plan will automatically renew every 3 months.
SGD168
($28/month)
- Signature audio course Tween Talk
- Audio class on private podcast
- Templates, scripts, summaries
- Q&A / Interview with experts
- Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
This plan will automatically renew every 6 months.
SGD276
($23/month)
- Signature audio course Tween Talk
- Audio class on private podcast
- Templates, scripts, summaries
- Q&A / Interview with experts
- Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
- Enjoy 20% off (per month) compared to the 3-month plan!
This plan will automatically renew every 12 months.
SGD75
($25/month)
- Signature audio course
- Audio class on private podcast
- Templates, scripts, summaries
- Q&A / Interview with experts
- Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
This plan will automatically renew every 3 months.
SGD132
($22/month)
- Signature audio course
- Audio class on private podcast
- Templates, scripts, summaries
- Q&A / Interview with experts
- Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
This plan will automatically renew every 6 months.
SGD240
($20/month)
- Signature audio course
- Audio class on private podcast
- Templates, scripts, summaries
- Q&A / Interview with experts
- Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
- Enjoy 20% off (per month) compared to the 3-month plan!
This plan will automatically renew every 12 months.
Thank you for setting up this platform as the tweens years are like treading new ground, so it’s good to have a community to learn together. Once we build the relationship with them, it will be easier in the teen years!
We will turn these parenting challenges into teachable moments AND build trusting relationships with our tweens!
You will learn your WHY, so you can understand your child and your inner child.
When you are equipped with knowledge about your child's development, you can navigate the tweenager years with empathy and confidence.
You will learn how to speak the tween language so you can be on the same team as your tween.
When you build a trusting relationship, your child will run to you instead of away from you when they make a grave mistake or feel defeated.
You will learn and apply actionable, research-backed strategies, facilitate conversations and be your child's emotion coach.
These strategies will help your tweens develop skills such as
- emotion regulation
- problem solving
- stress management
- decision making
so they can become resilient, responsible and reflective teens.
Imagine this: the next time your tween acts out, you know exactly why they are behaving this way, and you are equipped with the self-regulation skills and scripts so you can respond to them with calm and compassion.
As a mother myself, I know the time constraints we face. That is why I choose to prioritise what is important to me. My relationships with my children are of utmost importance and I make sure I put in effort to understand, support and nurture their physical and mental health.
I hope to encourage you, amidst your busy schedules, to invest in your family. If something is important to you, make time for it.
Make time to learn and support your child so you can lay a strong foundation in the tween years. These years form the bridge between childhood and adolescence, and will shape their beliefs, values and behaviours.
If you don't do the work now, it is going to be much harder when they become teens.
As your coach and cheerleader, I've made learning simple for you! I intentionally create concise, digestible and actionable audio classes so you can learn while commuting, doing chores, or exercising. I share the best strategies and tips that make your time worthwhile.
The Be.Tween Community is for parents with children aged 7 to 12.
This is NOT for kiasu parents who want their children to be ahead of the race.
This is for parents who
- want their children to run the race at their own pace, and be present to support their tweens emotionally and mentally throughout the race.
- prioritise the mental health of their tweens,
- who want to connect with them to better meet their needs, and willing to journey with them through the stresses of studies and friendships, and at the same time, build strong relationships with their tweens that can withstand the turbulence of adolescence. (The work starts now!)
Yes, you will get immediate access to ALL past and new resources as long as you are a member in good standing.
- Four Foundational Modules: Tween Talk (Including workbook and transcripts)
- All Audio Classes e.g. Motivation and Homework audio class (with homework planner, DIY report card and spelling templates), Managing Anger for Tweens, Motivating your child in Mother Tongue etc.
- Learn to Learn Series (e.g Thinking Aloud, Memory Retention Strategies, Exam Planning, Pomodoro Method etc)
- Replays of our Q&As (e.g. Disciplining your child with former discipline mistress, Exam Techniques with former EL Head of Department, Guide your child in learning Chinese by experienced educators etc)
YES! In fact, I encourage you to read more parenting books!
That said, many parents have told me that they don’t know HOW to apply what they've read. They tried the strategies but they don’t seem to work. That’s because every child is different, every family is different so the one-size-fits-all approach may not work.
One valuable part of this learning community is the people. You can get feedback and support from other like-minded parents when the strategies don't seem to work, and you can hear from other parents who experience similar challenges.
Mummy Serene in my program told me: "Just knowing that I am not alone has helped me reframe my thoughts and given me new confidence to try again!"
In the Be.Tween learning community, I am going to get into the trenches with you, answer your questions in the private Facebook community and direct resources to help you. This individualised support cannot be found in books.
Yes! If they don't work, I will never put it out. These strategies are all backed by research and child development theories. I have personally tried it, other parents in my course and memberships have tried it and we’ve seen transformations in our children.
However, you have to invest your time in learning, intentionally applying the tips, and work on self-regulation (which I’ll share a lot in this learning community!)
The classes are not quick-fixes because we are dealing with humans, not machines. Our children go through developmental changes at different phases of their growth, some tools may work today but not the following week because they are always growing!
This learning community promises you a perspective change, that you will listen not lecture, partner not punish your tween.
You will learn how to respond to "defiant" and other tricky behaviours with compassion and limits, raise emotionally intelligent, resilient and confident problem solvers.
I understand that life gets in the way sometimes, that is why even if you can't make it LIVE, you can still submit your questions, and listen to the responses in the video and audio replays.
You will get the same content for all three plans, with new resources available each month. The 12-month is the most value for money as compared to the 3-month and 6-month plans: you get to enjoy 20% off (per month) compared to the 3-month plan!
Note that the plans will automatically renew every 3 months, 6 months and 12 months respectively.
Yes, definitely! Just email my team [email protected] and we will help you with the upgrade.
Yes you can. There will be no refunds for early cancellation, but you will still enjoy your membership benefits till the next renewal date (after which the membership will expire and you will not have access to the resources, we work like Netflix!)
This applies to all membership plans. Also note that even though you can rejoin the membership at a later date when it re-opens for enrolment, there will most likely be a price increase.
As long as you remain a member of good standing, your rate will be locked-in forever. The membership will automatically renew if you do not cancel.
Founder of Our Little Play Nest and the Be.Tween Community
Jacinth is a mum to 2 tweens and a former secondary school teacher, teaching students Mathematics and Science. She believes that every child can learn and want to do well, and that parents play a crucial role in supporting and encouraging their children.
With her decade long of teaching experience, she is passionate about sharing parenting and teaching tips to help parents navigate the challenges of parenting.
Writer, Community moderator
Vanessa is a primary school educator with experience in publishing practice books for children, where she draws on her classroom experience to create engaging and meaningful learning materials to support learning.
She believes that every child should be given tailored learning experiences that are challenging yet attainable to foster a sense of accomplishment and encouragement.
At home, Vanessa is a newly minted mother, who is learning to navigate the delights and demands of motherhood.
Community moderator
Jas is a mum to four beautiful children aged 5 to 12 years old. With over 14 years of teaching experience, she used to be a math teacher in a local school. Jas has also taught in a primary school, various secondary schools, and in a prestigious tuition centre. She has transited from public service to teaching preschoolers in a private setting.
SGD66
($22/month)
- Signature audio course Tween Talk
- Monthly audio class on private podcast
- Resources (templates, scripts, summaries)
- Monthly Q&A or Interview with experts
- Monthly Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
This plan will automatically renew every 3 months.
SGD120
($20/month)
- Signature audio course Tween Talk
- Monthly audio class on private podcast
- Resources (templates, scripts, summaries)
- Monthly Q&A or Interview with experts
- Monthly Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
This plan will automatically renew every 6 months.
SGD220
(~$18/month)
- Signature audio course Tween Talk
- Monthly audio class on private podcast
- Resources (templates, scripts, summaries)
- Monthly Q&A or Interview with experts
- Monthly Learn to Learn study skills series
- Support from private Facebook community
- Enjoy two months FREE compared to the 3-month plan!
This plan will automatically renew every 12 months.
If you have any questions, please reach out to me!
[email protected]